One good habit - a positive choice
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; 1. Often talk about things the children two sides, and let the children know that anything is positive and the negative side.
2. treat a child with positive attention, appreciate their strengths, and inform the interests of the child to actively deal with the problem, let them choose the positive personal understanding.
3. on the children's weaknesses exist, to deal with the objective, or even positive view, trust, children will become better and better.
4. When the child a bad mood, when informed of his positive attitude towards using solve the problem.
5. at home to create a relaxed happy living environment.
good habit of second - independence is a condition
1. supporting children discover their talents. parents are the first children to trust their own can be independent, the same time in the career of the invention to various conditions so that children can invent their own. You can work out some small, easy to achieve the purpose, let the children experience the victory of an independent feel happy.
2. to let go as much as possible when doing nothing. cold, the parents said their children were not asked to when the parents not the children in every possible way. 3. respect the child's choice is independent of the conditions of children. basketball athlete Michael Jordan's mother was deeply understand that the most delicate, most do not trust the problem is to allow children to seek their own fantasy reading , make their own life crashed off the resolution, choose me to help them determine the different development paths. was closed, it is crucial to separate the child but to ask them why they think so. carefully listen to what they Chen said, let the children express their views independently.
good habit of the three --- a strong obligation to the heart
1. from simple to complex,
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, from easy to difficult, conscious in the home to the children arrange some proper, whatever obligations, such as to eliminate health, responsible for watering plants, etc., see if he can complete, completed immediately be encouraged.
2. listen to the recommendations of the child on family life. often talk about family and children spending additions, personnel exchanges, and asked the child to talk about their own views, or a claim to measure your child. When parents often condensate listen to their views, using their valuable suggestions, when the children will remember with affection on the family in the Italian sense of responsibility.
3. let the children learn self-service, not always for children, said: small. do, there may be children have complete control. Therefore, parents should try to give them some chance of temper and courage, so that the child will be able to strengthen the sense of responsibility in the self-service.
4. emphasized that the results of doing so children develop or do not do everything, what must do serious, do outstanding, has done an excellent self-request.
5. Do not give children the parents committed what, to request a child his age to meet the characteristics, otherwise the child is not easy to develop said, forget not that bad habits.
four good habits of perseverance and determination ---
1. to the children set specific goals, to do every day to keep and motivate them in a timely manner.
2. When children must be made to maintain the effectiveness of doing one thing, give them a reward. awards may not be material, can be a look, a smile, or raise the child to make a record.
3. From the beginning the habit of easily created, and gradually develop the child's stamina, so slowly to get to persevere. Some parents feel that their children do not always long sex, not enough to keep doing things, and some parents think the will is born things, there is no method of training, it can only will be in the habit of nurturing process occurs gradually, and enhance; gradually occur, in turn, can strengthen the determination to promote a strong habit of creating.
--- full of good habits of five own
1. ego and low self-esteem often idea away. If a person good with a positive attitude to look at themselves, it is easy to own; if you always see yourself with a negative attitude, it's easy sense of inferiority. Take my own case, when admitted to Tsinghua University is very happy, but very low self-esteem on the Tsinghua University. As my family was poor, of course, from Shanghai, but from the Shanghai suburbs. Dibon parents were farmers, came to the town, two people pay add up to less than 40 yuan, have to nurture 8 a child. so I feel inferior. but now want to come, I choose to bring these thoughts are negative self-esteem. If I actively think about it, a poor child, the children of a farmer, because it symbolizes for me to pay you All feelings! & amp, actually admitted to Tsinghua University, It is so much Burongyia, which clarify my diligent, intelligent, ah. So many parents in this area, supported by children to see the positive side of things.
2 . self-confidence is to build up. the victory of one thing to do is easy to increase self-confidence, the failure to do one thing, it is easy to add low self-esteem. So, suggests that parents do not give their children struggle to establish realistic goals, so not only can not assist their children succeed , it will crack down on children's self-confidence.
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