Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Treat them the beauty of tolerance

 So be kind to others from the start! Life is often like this: for many people an understanding and tolerance, in fact, support and help yourself, be kind to others is to treat yourself. As the Chinese proverb: Professor of roses, hand left lingering fragrance.
with people that it is very simple, but is not an easy thing to do: care for others, when the friends take the initiative in times of difficulties the hand of friendship; respect for others, not to explore the privacy of others, and not talk behind others ; good at communicating with others, communication, good and those with their own interests, personality different people; recognize the value of others, to take the responsibility ... ...
Some people say that tolerance is a sign of weakness, it is not true, there is weak suspected of tolerance can not be called a true fundamental tolerance. Tolerance is a rare nirvana - a necessary practice needed to reach the realm of practice.
shuttle in the vast sea of ​​humanity in the face of a small fault, a faint smile, a gentle apology language, you will appreciate one of the indulgence and understanding, which is tolerant; in human life, often due to a trivial matter, one not careful, people do not understand or are not trusted, but not demanding any person, legal person in the heart of self-discipline, to forgive thyself, and this is tolerance. The so-called
19th century French literary master Victor Hugo once said:
ancient legend, an old Zen master, a night walk in the monastery, suddenly see the corner edge of a chair, and he see at a glance there was a violation of the monks went out to play Temple of regulation over the wall. Old Master is not quiet, went to the wall, remove the chair, place and squat. Awhile, there really were a young monk over the wall, the dark, stepping on the old Zen master jumped into the yard of his back. When his feet touch the ground, it found that riding is not just a chair, but his own master. Monk suddenly panic, tongue-tied. Contrary to expectation, but the young monk, the master did not blame him harshly, but in a calm tone, said: He knew, tolerance is a silent education.
in daily life, when your When you are intimate friends, accidentally or intentionally do things to make you sad, when you want to break up with him or forgive him for everything? Sit down and think, or the upper tolerance.
Some people say that tolerance is a sign of weakness, it is not true, there is the fundamental weakness of the suspected tolerance can not be called a true tolerance. Tolerance is a rare nirvana - a necessary practice needed to reach the realm of practice.
psychologists pointed out that the appropriate tolerance, to improve relationships and to maintain physical and mental health are beneficial. This tolerance, referring to others in life, work, study the fault, the fault appropriate approach to effectively prevent the situation from expanding and intensifying conflicts, to avoid serious consequences. A large number of facts have proven that not forgiving others, will bring disaster to themselves. Others or demanding too demanding of themselves, certainly in the psychological state of tension. The inner conflict is difficult to escape conflict or emotional crisis, can easily lead to endocrine disorders, such as the excessive secretion of adrenaline, causing a deterioration of the physical body chemistry changes, resulting in high blood pressure, heart rate, reduce the secretion of digestive juice, gastrointestinal disorders, etc., can be associated with confused, insomnia, fatigue, malaise, loss of appetite, upset and other symptoms. Psychological stress affects the endocrine function of the stimulus, and changes in endocrine function in turn increase a person's psychological tension, creating a vicious cycle and harming health. Some extreme cases may even lead to loss of reason and source of the disaster, causing serious consequences. Once forgive others, the psychological will be through a huge transformation and purification process to make a new turn for the better relationships, a lot of grief can be avoided or eliminate boredom.
tolerance, meaning you will not be punished for the mistakes of others and themselves.
anger and grief is the shadow of those who follow the narrow-minded. The root of anger is nothing but the power of alien - someone or something violated and hurt yourself (interests or self-esteem, etc.), in a word, finds someone else wrong, so excitedly pornographic, evil side of students from the gall bladder; teeth , anger starting from the heart. All these physiological responses is nothing more than punishment for their mistakes, their own! Obviously not worth it.
tolerant of your enemies, enemies, opponents, the issue of non-principle, this situation, you will get the broader picture of the joy, the joy of turning hostility into friendship and mutual understanding between people of joy. To know that you are not wander alone in this world, we each walked their lives the way, have Rangrang, it is inevitable collision, so even mind the kind of people will inevitably have to hurt people, if retribution, not only ask Ping not mind the wounds of the injured person and only tied in endless quarrels chariot.
the Three Kingdoms, Zhuge Liang inexperienced, Liu called Cao suddenly made the, the brothers will be The results of a new battle field victory, so that customs, Zhang brothers and admiration this idea. If Zhuge Liang had general knowledge with them, the argument entangled, and will inevitably cause the generals do not, people separate, how can I have a new field after the First World War and more victory?
tolerance is a broad, inclusive earthly emotions it; tolerance is a state, it can make people leap generous candid level. Only tolerance, in order to
tolerance, meaning you will not worry about the outcome.
tolerance, first of all, including their tolerance. Only on their tolerance, are likely to have tolerance of others. Half the people from their troubles, the so-called Own Prison, cocoon.
mortal beings, their own strengths, but each is short. Feisty lose a certain limit, often burdened by worldly possessions, loss of pleasure in life. Not only recognize certain aspects of their own in order to avoid weaknesses, can not swallow because of the fire of jealousy Emmanuel heart.
tolerant of their own, that is calm and work life. Only those who are prepared to come in when the opportunity missed regret leaving, indifferent to life is a recipe for loneliness durability. Course is progressive dynamic portrayal, but the National Cheng Kung University who not interested in fame and fortune of the generation.
saying loss of elegance, but all day long melancholy, spirit-variable. Only from time to time on things calm, tolerant, generous, can be everywhere to seize the opportunity to complete harmony.

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