The highest grade of a man is his choice of women

 Very much appreciate the beautiful host Phoenix Star interview, Shen said this sentence: a man is his top choice taste in women. A man's house, car, cigarette lighters, suits, of course, can become part of his taste, but the most essential and most authentic taste of the performance of a man is what he chose a woman. -
Choose what kind of woman is equivalent to choose what kind of life. As the saying goes, men fear into the wrong profession, women are afraid to marry the wrong husband, a man is it not. Write Great William Shakespeare wrote many wonderful life drama, but his marriage was no romantic. Marriage because he clearly learned the hard way, life would wear a better understanding of love. People live a lifetime, what is necessary? Really need is a good attitude and leisurely mood. - Only family harmony, healthy state of mind only people who have the quiet conditions. For example marry a good woman, you can give a man leisurely mood. So, should marry a woman to be what has the highest taste it? -
1, the most important quality a woman should be good, and virtues, filial piety. The world does not know how many hardy men suffering from his wife and his real mother of plywood between the gas? In fact, the relationship between handle and the elders are not so simple words of filial piety, there are a lot of skills and personality problems. -
2, virtuous, which is the same age female virtue. That specific point, that is to be able to cook, laundry, take care of their families. Even at home hire nanny, also need a hostess to make arrangements get set up. -
3, notice of ceremony. This is a new era for the requirements of the times a woman. A woman's temperament and upbringing is a rich outpouring of the heart, but also with others where the real distance. -
4, thinking, and taste. Have bothered to get involved in thinking of making her gossip among others, she has always been a Good taste, so she can express their own style of Originality. -
5, sensible. The most important thing is for the dignity of man, and she attacked me at home, but not in public satire, making fun of me. Do not know the dignity of a woman to maintain her husband is very stupid woman. -
6, full confidence, relatively free. Grass is always greener is a human instinct, there is no guarantee of a lifetime only to have a positive impression. All the world to advise women to be married to learn hard He wanted to be left alone for a while, what do Suizui asked whether, should send a cup of tea, gently shut the door just fine. -
7, have a stable income. Women dependent on men to survive not only be independent, self-esteem. Very much agree. -
8, no excessive material desires. BMW sitting, bicycle riding can also be five-star hotel stay, camping tents do not mind, and her husband will not talk about the conditions in the money
9, a little childlike innocence. If a man really love a woman, you should maximize the care of her innocence. Not lost a childlike woman, standing face to face can make a long boring, fun. -
10, enjoys reading and music. Prefer not to see what colorful reading fashion magazines, is nothing like listening to music to forget the popular ballad. Classic books and music can make life trivial and not the years in her soul bears the traces. -
11, working ability, skill. The woman apparently did not work too much time skeptical. Have skills make her own entertainment, good control of emotions. As long as there are certain endowments and diligence, this is not a problem. -
12, no ugly looks like, but be gentle. -
13, good health, and know good health and basic medical knowledge. -
14, a little romance. Marriage is a color, a live, there is movement in the world, it is difficult to imagine a romance does not have, do not have the taste of a woman is a good wife. -
Have such a woman, even if the sun and moon and stars are cold, mountains, grass and trees have declined to do, the marriage can in memory of the initial light in any corner of the visible and the unknown, burning warm .

Classic adult dirty jokes are not laugh, you cut me ( not nearly 18 years of age )

 Fortune teller and Miss White: there will be two big waves of life.


2. lectures female teachers pants zipper was opened, a girl stood up to remind: the teacher, you have not closed the door! teacher waved: whether it for a moment the headmaster want to come visit


3. wedding early in the morning the next day, the bride from the bridal chamber out of pain, hand held on the wall, hand over his lower body, cursed:
liar! What a liar! three years before marriage, said the savings, I thought it was money!


4. the hospital under the shade of a tree, a pair of lovers kissing in embrace. a doctor saw the last of the men said that : Will not be called a bed! ! Bed! ! Damn it! Thanks and I came to and killed your mother to your non-



7. adjacent to the vagina and anus, the vagina of the anus, said: One-Eyed Jacks and out of your does not help me, anal said: Every time it came, two grenades were hanging in my house, scared all scared me, which would dare to come out?



8. Emperor see concubine sad looking, Ji Zhao physician, the attending physician after the prescription: brawny eight! Timor foreign tour, Hui Gong, see Fei radiant, eight thin knees before the house of Han. Emperor: Who kneel down? physician: dregs!


9. woman bought a banana, put on the back pockets after the bus from time to time reaching back scratching. After a while, there is a young man patted her shoulder: Miss, please let go I want to get off the



10. family planning survey the countryside minister, asked the farmer: Why can not marry your cousin you know? l simple and honest farmer smiled and answered: Relatives Well, Oh Oh Oh ... ... Oh, too familiar, bad start!


11. ant wife married to a centipede, wedding night, asked what feelings ant, ants anger Feng said: Bankai a leg is not, then one leg is not Bankai ...... mother pull the legs of a night!


12. Bulls travel, fear of cows unattended. then wondered: monkey cunning, cruel tiger, only the elephant and reliable. few days back
Bulls reclaim his wife from the image. The next day the bull angrily: Bovine B big


13. family planning staff to to check the work of a mountain village, found a serious comeback, and asked the villagers: : the one window, two doors, 26 years went into people. matchmaker said: silly than stupid


15. oilfield, a newly married couple. For a long sent a couplet The Union: new new drill new wells. Second line: the more oil drilling deeper beyond. Streamer: more clear ... loose. 【】 read separately from the Meiji



16. Shandong Literacy , the teacher wrote on the blackboard, br>

18. a peasant woman into the city just babysit owners to clean up the bed and found a used condom, I do not know what, I asked the hostess.
hostess to ask: you do not make Love it? answered the woman: for, but did not wear mad ye are peeling out.
;
; ; ; ; comes the son of underworld boss The written request for leave ;
Dear Mr. Wang:
Hello, I want to leave, I did not want to, but my father yesterday for protection fees being cut down, and today can not find the staff, they called me to take care number. Wang
assure you I will not be chopping up the.
While I was on the second year, but last year and the next class I have played a little strong, he was in fifth grade then, and finally he was dragged into the hospital I played eight sewing needles, living in a week the hospital, then I was mercy, my dad said, with people looking for trouble, start must be hard, so I follow the teachings of his father motherhood, brought to the hospital to small strong, so please rest assured that the teacher, I do not make you lose face.
right, Wang reported that if someone bullies you my name, my name in this area, who listened, I have to respect one-third. If they do not give you face, you reported that my father's name, see Shui Gandong you.
Wang, something I helped my dad would immediately come back after finishing school, if the principal came out and I'm not, you do not, and he said. Because yesterday was my dad who was president of the son of a bitch to hack with. Wang, do not worry, I remember the words for you, step by step, a knife scar. I will not hold
. If I did not come back within a two hour, please call the hospital trouble Wang phone and called a few slips. Wang
Please believe me, I will triumphant return. I have to help my father out of this tone, I believe you will be justice for the sound of my father, my father received a six thanks to protection money to live, and now some trouble, I have the Lulu Lian, and repeat it again , so that will cut off my source of income ..... I went to .... [Laughable person must be referred to Kazakhstan, read within one month does not turn you will have bad luck. ]

Married to the difference between before and after marriage

 Marriage before > look down

him: great! I look forward to the day finally arrived! I can not wait!
She: I can go back on it?
him: No, you do not even think!
She : Do you love me?
He : Of course
her: you will betray me?
him: not , how do you get that idea?
She: You may kiss me?
He : Of course, not possible only then!
She: You have probably hit me?
him: never !
She: I can trust you?

< married > from the bottom up.

Drinking say

 German wine term, first seen in there guilt. We should not be affected by the confusion Yin Wang, drunk on wine de zai! Germany is the last wine wine merit, and with social progress and the continuous development of China's wine culture on the content of German wine drinking has generally refers to the ceremony. Simply put, the content of German wines can include the following:
1, sincerely wine on the table is the most luxurious and harmonious atmosphere, which is also the wine on the table relationships a reflection of German wine. Drinking among the non-insincere, not to have the mentality is not good, and anyone drinking, we must maintain a good rapport Jiuzhuo atmosphere. 2, an air of contented Pay attention to the odd glass of fine drink discretion, the posture to contend delivered, the only way to achieve the drink flowing and elegant level. 2, the body not only required when the elegant drinking wine or the United States, or an elegant environment, but also should pay attention to their behavior and body. There should be a wine tasting elegance thing. If you humble when drinking, irrigation and other acts who are beneath style. 4, there are degrees of alcohol will be back in ancient times, people used to say to the moderate drinking among the ancients to promote drinking Is the so-called 5, drinking a wine festival in Germany, Control, that is, be sure to ask people to control their own alcohol into the drinker, which is above the phrase And the wine is Germany's economy, it is to remind people not to drink among the ostentatious vanity, but do not waste wine. 6, the integrity of honest talk about alcohol consumption weight, mainly in two aspects; the one hand, we must urge somebody to drink alcohol in a sincere and good for the purpose of holding an improper motive to persuade people not drinking; the other hand, people who want to stop drinking, once made up his mind to have to keep their promise to be strict with themselves, this is a manifestation of good German wine.

Master refused to sleep ....

 little master is very excited today , but also play games and eat even a small walnut end of bubble tea but also play the piano .
that are Half past eleven , the little master that did not mean to sleep . my hand and then opened it, Xiaowa said : I am self-management self- typing, Xiaowa had said : Today, it is not possible to update the log , the little master to get started have been robbed , he goes without eating ah .....
Previous Solution of old photos cheer it :


Haha, like cutting ? Xiaowa at a glance which is the grandmother , and then I asked the grandmother holding a minimum Xiaowa The doll who Xiaowa categorically answered: >

MSN Spaces perfect move to the Sina blog !

King of rock super- city super-bubble

 Golden Rock: Super City, Super Bubble
article reproduced from market. Now, when everyone is talking about house prices when they described what?
Regent Shanghai Hotel, a forum on energy saving and emission reduction after the peak, CBN journalists and from Mitsubishi Tokyo dinner with the management of the motor, but also talk to an inattentive prices.
Tokyo reporter asked why the price change, because the last three months, house prices rose in metropolitan cities in the process of number of January 1 as the base, Beijing, Shanghai, prices will double up in the next 5 years, including high-end housing projects are likely to break 30 million per square meter.
in Beijing, with high visibility and high Ren is the developer of the controversial prediction, the Beijing housing prices will be 5 million in 5 years into the era of urbanization will accelerate because the influx has brought prices to rise further, and the current housing shortage of residential land supply significantly.
These projections on the network quickly spread. in favor of the Zheyue a big trouble, wake up, unless the yuan is worthless, times not so easy, after all, the purchasing power out there China's economy to be out of the at the stage of accelerated urbanization, land and property due to the relative and absolute scarcity, with the ; rigid demand financing function complements the defects in the stock market, further strengthened the upward trend in house price spiral;
Fourth, from the mega-cities (MegaCity) point of view, the process of urbanization in China is very likely that the formation of Beijing, Shanghai, the two super- city, its population than the present dramatically increased in the high population density, urban land can only be split three-dimensional space to solve the scarcity of living space. and scarce, it is the premise of the investment.
yesterday, CBN reporter Golden Rock telephone interview, asked him if he really thinks that nearing completion, for example, when the urbanization rate of 60% or more, the rigid requirements of real estate investment demand will shift from consumer demand, as U.S. and European countries have completed the process of urbanization, land development and real estate transactions Premium Premium disappeared, the residential consumer will return to nature, expensive, Bai wrote, rose, London, New York as the world financial center in the course of true, Tokyo is also true. said that today's prices over Tokyo, but that more than 80 in Japan late last century, the peak price in Tokyo. CBN journalists and guests returned to Tokyo Tokyo and Shanghai housing prices on the dialogue.
Q: how about Tokyo is the prices, such as Shanghai lots within the inner ring?
A: If calculated in dollars, and now Tokyo apartment good location, 100 square meters, the price probably from 600,000 to 800,000 U.S. dollars, good quality, security and management is also very good.
Q: this calculation, the Shanghai housing prices have been higher than Tokyo , why the impression of abnormally high prices in Tokyo it?
A: You mean the situation when the Japanese bubble economy. In the late 1980s, Tokyo 100 square meters apartment, sold for $ 1,200,000, and Both Lot and quality, security environment, not as an apartment now.
Q: From the economic bubble burst in to the present, house prices in Tokyo fell much?
A (cut down to make a gesture): The situation is different in different locations, but also down a while to rise, and fall, but in general, almost half of it down. well fall to the lot less.
Q: What do you think now in Shanghai The price is not that the bubble does?
A (laugh, gesturing): it may be early in the bubble. But there are two very different Shanghai and Tokyo, the Chinese economy is up in the walk, and Japan all these years is stagnant; Secondly, I think the Chinese media are confident that the Chinese economy, while Japanese media a lot of negative reports on the Japanese economy, a little small, they reported very large, and makes us a lack of confidence.
Q: Finally, ask the Chinese people in some areas like real estate, a person buying a lot of sets in different cities, Tokyo has this up?
A: In the bubble economy period there, but now is very small. Now, some Tokyo are borrowed money that would buy a small apartment near the subway for rent, because Japanese interest rates too low.
Q: Since interest rates so low, liquidity should be very strong, why not borrow money to invest in banks what?
A: The main lesson of the bubble burst, not a hh
disastrous bubble economy can not avoid?
When a reporter to not surprised: property market. Chaodao 90 times earnings the stock market, the Nikkei broke 40,000 points, the Tokyo stock market trading stock market trading volume of more than half of the world; Tokyo Shinjuku 70 square meters of houses to sell 200 million, then Tokyo can buy the real estate market Under the two American and Japanese everywhere waving a check book, bought more than 96% of Hawaii hotels and senior housing, downtown Los Angeles, half of the real estate, they even said that l the United States is becoming Japan's first 41 counties r. , Osaka, Nagoya, Kyoto, Yokohama, Kobe, land prices in six major cities increased by double digits every year, in 1987 residential and commercial land prices rose by 30.7% and 46.8%. All this interpretation in the end, the Tokyo Imperial Place 1 square miles of land prices in California than the entire value of the land is also high, four-chome, Ginza, skyrocketing land prices to per ping (3.3 square meters) 120 million yen!
all to carry on. the Japanese stock market bubble began to burst in 1990, the real estate bubble Since 1991, burst, 1/3.70 square is the peak of the house, when the most expensive $ 2,000,000, $ 300,000 when most miserable, now 50 million. Japan's Nikkei 225 index fell 6,000 points from 40,000 points, now only 1 million points . such lessons, why would you repeat it? m only sell 5 million, are to buy, that would Jisi people in the future if the sell 50 million, put together the world's wealthy have come, conquered them, and to enhance the value of China's wealth. You do not have to worry about, such as those old people, will naturally sell the house to buy a cheap house to live abroad. This is the first of urbanization, the urbanization and then l to r, first, the process of bubble bubble again. Miss Xue landscaped community in October 2004 moved to Shanghai, home from the field, when she bought the house this Tang dynasty garden is the third hand, unit price of 1.2 yuan per square meter in mid-.8, Xue Miss see you around the listing price has reached 25,000 yuan per square meter, up and down.
Miss Xue asked her, years, will be a year old, the original wall and ground stands to reason that only depreciation depreciation year after year, how will more expensive? This is a bubble which does not do? 2 points, when the forecast in Beijing, Shanghai, housing prices double in the next 5 years .
to the left, or right?
Golden Rock replied: individuals have stood the intersection of two circles. to the left, or right?
of wealth can not flow from the original code has been the land there, transfer to a property, there can be liquid assets, and asset prices and the three factors, is expected, trading and liquidity.
side of a piece of land, if not production permit, there is no value. and you have a house property, because the expected liquidity support, into the transaction, you can get premium trading. This premium, you can call it asset bubble, or called the Assets of inflation.
degree of financial technology. because of the financial technology, the use of leverage and transaction flow will amplify the initial value of the assets hh the reporters mention several problems for the answers given in advance -
to repay the debt on future debt is now also the parent child bond also. the previous period (time), my father gave me a list of all the assets he is now, 30 million of cash, I think he'll put them nice to spend the money, he can live a better life, the best he can balance, because of his debt I am now very easy to his promises. each of you think about it, the sooner the debt to buy assets, is not more good? time you feel the debt is heavy, it is lighter than that of the debt? So I always say, do not invest, walking; investment drive; debt investment, air. investment is in the active management risk, is the modern way of life risk in seeking wealth.

Chapter VII of the network is not easy to say love you

 In recent years, network-centric information technology as the important feature of the new technological revolution has affected all areas of society. live, learn, work and ways of thinking. At present a large-scale Internet has entered the Chinese people's lives and affect every aspect of society. Now, China's Internet users is growing geometrically, according to China Internet Network Information Center, 1997 on October 31 to 62 million Internet users in China, 31 December 1998 up to 210 million in June 1999 rose to 400 million. As of June 2003, the number of Internet users in China reached 68 million users. As the Internet growing impact of the 21st century, China will enter the all aspects of people's lives. As the students lead the trend, it is no survey data show: At present, students in universities in the number of people contact the network up to 97.2%, of which nearly 35% of the students regular access (ie more than 6 hours per week online.) network in college students to occupy a pivotal leisure life the status of the network skillfully used their own lives, which has become a common phenomenon among college students.
a network on the Internet on college students attractive
has a strong appeal to college students. This attraction is the inherent properties of the Internet and the psychological characteristics of students themselves closely related.
First, high speed Internet to spread information, college students found time to pursue the psychological. boundaries of moral and social ideology, etc., as long as there is no serious obstacle to the language, the click of the mouse will be able to understand the information around the world. This transcends national borders, geographic, cultural exchanges, and fits well with fast transient time of students seeking personality traits .'s fast-paced college life college students forced to find ways to improve the utilization of unit time, the Internet to meet their requirements.
Second, students found a strong network of freedom to pursue the psychological sense of equality. As the inventor of the Internet claim it: the network is a completely free and equal world. Whether you in real life, how prominent status, to the Internet is just a symbol you just, like others, without any privileges. with the traditional one-way dissemination of information in different ways , the network information dissemination is a multi-directional, interactive participation, people can not only take the initiative to get all the information they need, and can become information publishers, commentators or feedback people, communication and equal participation in online activities.
Third, the online fashion students fashion consistent with the psychological. when other people are still discussing what is the network, the Internet has become the fashion students. now, they are no longer first hello to meet: no? received or are receiving a good modern education, have their own unique taste, and INTERNET This is in line with the knowledge of the times have a higher content of new things, in their view, nature is an elegant fashion. < br> Fourth, the hidden network of contacts, widespread desire to meet the students the truth, suspecting the truth of the emotional psychology. network information and communication technologies make the practice moved to the the real world and virtual world of blurred boundaries, which fundamentally changed the people's understanding. There is a saying the network had spread a long time, fill out a registry to get a corresponding identity, and the capacity to interact online, and abnormal wide range of contacts can be said that contacts in various places around the world, every corner. People can not hear each other voices, to see no face, it is this hidden passion for enhanced interaction. but this text is the result of more deliberate exchange of information processing, and some totally false information. in the virtual online world, all of the people are consciously or unconsciously to conceal their identity and true colors, true or false to snooping or other actual situation, to find joy in the dodge.
Second, the Internet world is very exciting
in the Internet age, social interaction is given new meaning, with the the rapid development of personal computers, mobile computers, global networks and multimedia is widely used, e-mail because Juyou quiet, fast and cheap features, will be the main medium of interpersonal communication in the next 15 years, it will keep pace with the voice communications and even above the sound of traffic on, the Internet will become the main symbol of social interaction, it will become a place of exchange of knowledge and mutual assistance.
in the Internet age, students become attached to the computer room, a or BBS (bulletin board), an online forum to chat, etc., dating to people. Therefore, in the Internet age, the gradual emergence of university students a new way of communication, namely, interpersonal networks. In short, the network of human life, particularly is the lifestyles of young college students can be said to be revolutionary. Meanwhile, the students via the Internet to a broad array of information from the query to the part they need, and Far-flung friends to exchange audio, users can communicate and have not met emotion, can be achieved online learning, online shopping, online doctor, online wedding. the entire planet in social circles, the students according to interests, hobbies, ability to form different identities individuals.
online dating, online bored
chat, friends, college students one of the major network activity. major site chat room packed with students of the figure, the various dating sites filled by university students in the registration information and a message. chat, friends, friends to meet a number of college students important component of life, and some even get stuck unable to extricate themselves. facial contacts in the network plays a decisive role: beauty on the Internet known as the M is called the case, therefore, generally before the meeting is If the person does not look pretty, mobile phone rang, I said in a hurry, so get out. Tak Wah is the game! a bit urgent,'ll see you, bye! development of the best soil. the world's most beautiful feelings of love. prevalent in today's network society, this sentence should is everyone talking about online dating. regardless of whether you believe that online dating, online dating has become a fashion. online and beautiful moment in the popular network of Internet novel writers Black and White Choi's head. nuanced portrait of this novel online romance gentle touching, moving and soul-stirring plaintive, greatly stimulated the enthusiasm of people to seek the network of love.
reason why online dating attractive, simply because the role of virtual sex intercourse. Online lovers generally far apart, in two cities or even two countries. through the computer screen, a stranger far away to talk to your hot feelings, share fresh and moving, far from sitting on a park bench can be experienced. Meanwhile, the two sides have not met when the expression of love without reservation, all thought of care, worry, or their troubles over the network in the past, even shy people who had dared to express their feelings, thus greatly improving the quality of online love. and love in real life than love does not involve a house online, income, family background and other specific issues, both sides can easily threw himself into the world to two.
online games, attractive hard
block online gaming sites online group of college students are a good place to go. students purchase a computer, the entertainment choices on a standard computer configuration first, that a lot of unhappy students on fast speed, can play three games , the picture is clear, whether the three-dimensional sound, this series of problems unrelated to their studies as students first consider buying a computer problem. Therefore, a considerable number of students choose In addition to relatively cheap, the game is essential in supporting the three-dimensional floating point capability, far better than IN-TEL Duron CPU Celeron series edge. street in Jinan, the software stores, the best selling some game discs, especially those selling Fighting games in particular. According to some shopkeepers introduce people who look like college students tend to be more critical to buy the game disc, but really on the ball. Compared with the games or game discs, online games because of their interactive, more appears to Meilinandang. especially as so everything, that also want to play another play, no matter win or lose, are tempted to keep playing. Some students stay for the games site where seven or eight hours, with boundless love for the network to resist the natural human desire mm appetite, sleep, effective form of capacity. In the information age, college for the paper in terms of individual students Shuaqi the trick: using the Internet, search thousands of articles to the article, then topic needs, copy, paste, and soon patchwork selling papers. The website provides papers, including arts, science, agricultural, medical and management disciplines and so on. If the opportunistic actually good business to buy paper in the online user queues. buy paper users lack students, graduate students, they all claim to need a term paper or thesis hh It is reported that gunmen in general is due to your busy looking for work, no time students writing papers. In addition, some schools or departments as strict requirements on the thesis, dissertation mere formality, so please write the paper web gunmen, although slightly lower quality, but are often able to pass.
students from Find papers related to online information is allowed, but if you do not make up after digestion to copy the papers themselves, this is plagiarism. This phenomenon is not only marks the downfall of the students themselves, but also means that the academic spirit in the student population in the bankrupt. The Chinese nation has always been both a heavy weight paper products are also character of the ancient civilization. dignity, is the college students facing a new problem.
three networks on college students humanity as the ethical and moral confusion, the network is not a scourge, but it is a impact.
network of leisure life of university students played an indispensable role. First, the Internet as a means of education, enrich the content of education, broadening the educational approach to help students in a broad, free environment to accumulate knowledge to enable students to quickly and easily understand a variety of modern scientific knowledge and life experience, is conducive to our overall quality improvement; Secondly, the network will enable students to diverse interaction and exchanges, promote mutual exchanges between university students , but also with a broad effective integration of society; again, the network will further make the world smaller, so that a thousand times to facilitate global communication, global awareness will help the formation of students; Finally, the Internet age, parents and students will have a more more time to think, to fix the two sides in order to better express the feelings and help the establishment of a new generation of international relations.
college students, the networks have a positive impact, but also will inevitably cause some negative effects.
1. on college students the world, life and values of.
college world outlook and outlook on life is the formation of young students the critical period. students receptive to new things, new ideas, but because of lack of experience and ability to identify, easy to good and bad, regardless. In the face open, transnational, and global, diverse network culture, students of life and values are subject to cultural traditions from different countries, ideas, religious beliefs and lifestyle impact. online lie can be said that the impact of the recent years. According to a university students in regular Internet conducted a survey of 400 Internet users among the 48.6% admitted lied to friends, or with make over another as friends. In addition, the proliferation of online pornography, counter infiltration, hacker attacks, which for the life and values are formed by students who have done great harm.
between different countries on the Internet cultural traditions, moral values and way of life very different, the conflict is very intense. Western countries rely on its abundant capital and advanced technology, exporting large amounts of information, including their political views and cultural ideas. some developed countries Internet use , resulting in the intensification of the conflict of values students, college students and even lead to moral anomie.
In addition, the gambling, homosexuality, prostitution is legal in a certain range, and students without a high ability to distinguish right and wrong and moral binding face of the Internet will be hard to resist all the temptations, the ideological and moral standards will decline. Also, Network Society offers a unique network created in unlimited moral behavior of the vacuum, there are often a variety of network ethics. In this moral vacuum environment, the network show and to undergraduates in a highly open and free space, but also the traditional moral and ethical standards challenges, while familiar in the real world, recognized by some of the Mental health of the network communication
arbitrary, concealed so that students contact situation facing the double split personality and the environment and atmosphere, easy to escape their own world, letting students when they return to reality will feel times subject to constraints and limitations, creating a sense of isolation. seriously, is escapism, indulges himself in the virtual world of escape. This is very likely to distort the personality of students, there was a series of mental illness.
Recently, one reported that a university had a student life, he is not very talkative, but particularly fond of chatting in the net bar membership. In-line flow of words, become a cute and more proud of one line, in real life, the more stiff clumsy. The students checked by a psychiatrist and was told that the network suffering from psychological disorders. Network of a typical example of psychological barriers to depression in daily life, no sense of loss of pleasure or interest, sleep disturbance, biological clock disorders, loss of appetite, weight loss, excitability, decreased self-evaluation, severe reduction of social activities, suicidal ideation. network of early psychological disorder, because patients feel the fun of the Internet, thus been extended online time, which memory loss occurs. after the development of dependence, manifested as day after getting depressed, thinking slow, dizziness, hand tremors, fatigue, weakness, mental state after the Internet can be restored to normal levels. Once you stop patients with advanced Internet, there will be acute withdrawal syndrome, and even self-harm or suicide means possible.
network dependent. network of virtual world users often make students have a special and Over time, knowing that the network can not be solved by practical problems, but also indulged themselves, unable to extricate themselves, resulting in excessive psychological dependence on the network. Even worse, addicted to online games, from which have a strong sense of satisfaction and pleasure, you can feel real confident feel, which plunged headlong into the virtual world, as The involuntarily into the cafe, a play on the play to the early morning, want to stop but also to stop. left for college good, and then reading for one semester. parents to take control of me, and even rented a house near the school to live down. something like According to the survey found that Internet addiction disorder and drug addiction or the performance of alcoholics is similar to an access to the Internet to excited, if no access to the Internet will be Students soak in the day time on the Internet up to 14 hours, this is a typical Internet addict. trillion, but psychological dependence. Meanwhile, Internet addicts longer, the more can not help but like the Internet, if not the Internet will find it very painful. Net can not get rid of Internet addiction serious idea, feel ill at ease, can not help it.
network depression. chat room, BBS, e-mail, Web pages, as college students interpersonal relationships, an important means of exchange of ideas, to alleviate psychological stress, the release of study, life stress has a positive effect. but because of the virtual feature Students trapped in another part of themselves unable to make normal interpersonal difficulties. Even worse, the Internet will soon stop acute withdrawal syndrome, and even self-mutilation or suicide means to endanger the safety of individuals and society.
In general, the new school easier for students suffering from to college of communication is that people
interpersonal skills and relationships formed in an important period, because the network communication with the traditional sense of affinity with interpersonal different, often difficult to form a real credible and safe relationships. all day long dealing with computer terminals, the lack of direct interpersonal communication, which students tend to be easy to make in isolation, selfishness, indifference and non-social, easy to make students in real life, the happiness of others and indifferent to social development.
disruption of interpersonal communication . Many students unfamiliar with the network partner eloquent, but really see the person, but know what to do, this will lead to more closed individual soul; some students favor of internet communication such as an anonymous form, often to the Internet users vent their negative emotions, and resolve concerns about their Some students had more frequent social interaction activities, most of the time now because of the chat input to the network, reducing real life to get to know new friends and also reduce contact with existing friends, leading to friendship fade, potentially reducing the personal life of the circle. When they warm atmosphere of popular online exchanges to step down and return to calm and monotonous reality of life, a strong psychological gap so that they could lead to psychological loneliness.
dislocation of interpersonal communication. network society is a high degree of information, automated society, people in their daily work and life can be contacted through computer terminals. This has greatly changed the way people communicate emotions, traditional visibility, a sense of affinity and interpersonal way gradually weakening. especially when students encounter difficulties in real life, they will feel more people are likely to meet the communication network. because, in the virtual online world, you can eliminate all kinds of social cues and material representation of interference, equal to communicate information with each other, exchange ideas, express feelings, in order to achieve the greatest understanding and help each other. But the long run it will cause in real life, reduced direct communication between people, relationships fade, and gradually weaken the students interpersonal skills, resulting in real interpersonal conflict and dislocation.
interpersonal deprivation. many college students use e-mail users, chat rooms, BBS is equivalent to family and friends in distant lands, strengthen ties, but the Internet too much time away normal social activities and interpersonal time, causing the social withdrawal behavior, mental health levels. surveys show that students often access the Internet, most introverted, sensitive, depression and lack of social interaction, usually taken due to lack of confidence escapism behavior. advent of the Internet gives them a eventually have to return to the real world. if long-term from the reality, to lose the interaction between people that feel real. into the community may not work with people after the normal exchanges, and even social phobia may occur, affecting the normal personality perfect. So , endless, uncontrolled access and escape from life, hamper the independence of students with mental maturity.
4. the impact on students learning
network instead of the library, making it possible to independently learn the real, which significant changes in the way of learning, learning concepts and methods is a major change in knowledge for the students to update and adjust its knowledge structure created a favorable objective conditions. College students are a special social groups, their main source of information to rely on books, Newspapers, Internet, TV, radio and other media. which network to the advantage of high-speed fast become the main channel for college students access to information. According to statistics, college students online access to information than the information obtained from traditional sources much more, which from the normal channels (teachers teach) the knowledge gained to form a great contrast, a strong impact on the formation of students learning. the face of a wealth of news and information, students should have identified advantages and disadvantages, see around corners, giving top priority of the insight and imagination, Otherwise, they will follow in the footsteps of predecessors back that there was little innovation and development. part of the students ability to identify low self-control is not enough, obsessed with online games, all night long soak in the cafe, not the normal classes, no time to rest, study grades plummeted, there has been homework information to address the negative effects of the network, improve their ability to resist pollution and consciously develop good surfing habits, the time limit on their own, not to indulge in a virtual world divorced from reality, so he is not only users of computer networks, is the computer network builders and real masters.
four students out of network mental errors
how the network will always be students their passion, this is culture, technology, knowledge, depressed. network the occurrence of psychological problems is the growth of college students in the course of the rapids and reefs encountered one. However, due to various factors, students in the face network, often can not grasp their own right, so bogged down in the quagmire of the network of psychological escape. Therefore, the proper use of the network tools, out of network mental errors, to face a variety of network mental troubles, is that each university students during the school must resolve. this issue is resolved well, students can enter the psychological health of the network, surfing the network. < br> 1, meet challenges, develop the correct attitude
network users must take an objective to evaluate the impact of the Internet on us, but the network of sub-obsessed media, this is our positive attitude towards the network. should face the fact that : Most of the students attitude towards the network or the normal, positive. Thus, although QQ BBS and other emerging social manner and is gradually being accepted into college students into their lives, but its role is not to be optimistic about the college students. After many experiences as online chat, you will find the topic of conversation is very boring. nothing more than did not meet face to face direct communication intimate and real level. Therefore, most students thought that the role of Network Communication pastime than practical significance, the network should be realistic interpersonal interpersonal appropriate supplement to the more links between people close but not more distant. At the same time, you can not underestimate the young college students on various social issues judgment. Chinese youth from childhood to accept the positive education, involving the destiny of the country and national interests on major issues, students identify the capacity is still very strong, such as In the U.S. bombing of our embassy in Yugoslavia in the event and Taiwan, cause students to a variety of network information on the attitude of most is ability to judge. Experience has shown that mature in a number of Internet users tend to stay on a fixed site and will not mess around on the Internet , college students and network links more closely. Since we can not out of it, students should be open, normal state of mind to deal with the challenges of online media.
2, to strengthen prevention, preventive measures to face
the challenge of Internet culture, we can not unworthy, closed networks, cut off the exchange, but should attach great importance to preventive measures. With the popularity of computer network to play a role in many aspects with newspapers, radio and television are the three traditional media contend, is called partner. But at the same time, the propagation characteristics of the computer network of information flooding caused all kinds of junk information will weaken their mental awareness. computer network like the clutches of an invisible, secretly control the weak self-control students. communication that electronic media function itself has a narcotic. Students may occur users of their psychological distress to advance the prevention, reduction or removal of the affected their mental health effects of transmission and the growth of channels. However, the complete elimination is unlikely, the most practical way is to take preventive measures, preventive measures. In their own psychological distress symptoms occur when the network to take active measures to properly deal with real life to remind ourselves of the difficulties, contradictions, dare to face reality and to maintain regular access to their on things around sober and objective understanding.
3, the face of confusion, the correct treatment
way traditional media is one-way information dissemination, that is active disseminators of information pushed to the audience, the audience in a passive position, and the law , contrary to the content of morality can easily be controlled, do not make it to spread. The one-way network communication mode of transmission will change this two-way communication, reflected the dominant position of the audience, they can take the initiative to get the information they need. Home Students tend to be weak or out of curiosity deliberately psychological impulse to find some sex and violence information. computer network, there are many websites dedicated to sexual services, such as pornographic magazines in the world famous form of access to the Internet in the United States. Many students in their daily lives can not be exposed to this type of pornographic magazines, so felt a